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| Reel VS Real |
This weekend I watched Mission Mangal. Vidya Balan played a very strong role. Though Akshay Kumar was in lead role but I felt Vidya Balan played a stronger role and her positive attitude and determination made the Mission Mangal Come true…
People may think I am a
feminist... May be… but not wrong… just watch the movie again from my
prospective….I loved her attitude few places a lot.
Firstly she felt guilty for
Akshay Kumar’s transfer to the Mission Mangal Project, but she did not lose
hope and decided to compensate for her mistake. Home science can give big ideas…so
big to launch mangalyans… so please ladies don’t take your poori making to be a
small job. And her poori making gave her initial idea to launch the rocket to Mangal.
She was a lady who believed
in God though being a scientist; she can strike a balance in her home chores
and her job very well, better than her always worried husband.
I can never forget the scene
where her husband was blaming her to be casual about her children and just more
focused on her job when she returned home from her job. And she understood her
daughter has been out of home late night without informing her parents. She called
her friends and got whereabouts without being offensive and reached the club
where her daughter was, and instead of chiding her daughter, she also enjoyed
with kids along with her husband, and told her, not to make her feel guilty
about her being in the job. She knows how to manage it. If he is so worried
then he should keep her friends number first.
And that’s what moms, be
positive, learn how to handle problems, you all are multi taskers, can do lots
of things together but the moment somebody tells you are guilty we forget our
proficiency with which we manage our homes and start feeling guilty. We women need
to learn to be self confident that we are doing the best job, and could manage
it in the best way. And if we get wrong at something, there is nothing to feel
guilty about. After all 8 out of 10 is not a bad score. I mean if I can perform 8jobs well and fail at 2 jobs, 8out of 10
is not a bad score after all we are master of all trades and jack of none.
So Moms and ladies we are
very strong support for our families but when we come to ourselves we forget to
be strong for ourselves. Vidya Balan played none other than a woman scientist in
ISRO who made the Mangalyan happen with her wits and ideas. Women if we are
strong we can manage anything. First of all we need to get over our own guilt
feelings.
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| Team Of Confident Real Women Scientists of Our Country |

